I just had a "discussion" with my parents about moving out. Actually, it wasn't supposed to be a discussion about me moving out. It was supposed to be me telling my parents that I've decided to stay at home until December so that I can save money to send them to Korea in the spring. Here's my dad's reaction: "....and what are you going to do after December? Why do you have to move out? How much longer do you think you have to live with us in this house? Soon you'll be married, and after that, you wouldn't be able to live with us even if you wanted to. You need to live here until you get married." Yeah...nothing about my noble efforts to buy my parents airfare to Korea to see their family, whom they haven't seen in almost 20 years. So yes...it blew up into this whole thing about why they don't think I should move out, except they never really told me the reasons why. If they need me, why can't they just come out and say it?